Trump’s rules of etiquette are straight out of the Jim Crow playbook - The Washington Post: Opinion

His comments about and to African Americans follow a pattern. ....
https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2018/11/10/trumps-rules-of-etiquette-are-straight-out-of-the-jim-crow-playbook/

9 Things The Happiest Couples Do For Each Other Without Being Asked -- HuffPost

In a healthy relationship, people tend to give love and support freely and frequently. They don't wait for a special occasion to show their appreciation. They genuinely enjoy doing nice things for one another "just because" ― no prompting necessary. ...
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/things-happiest-couples-do-for-each-other_us_5a501993e4b003133ec7db7e

12 Things Not to Say to Grieving Nonbelievers

When you talk with people who are grieving, you want to make them feel better. At the very least, you don't want to make them feel worse. This isn't always true (as you'll find out in some of these stories). But in general, in the face of grief, the point of comfort and consolation is to relieve some small part of the grieving person's pain. And I'll assume that the last thing you want to do is add to that pain.

The bad news is that, if you're a religious believer, the chances are excellent you've done exactly that....
http://www.alternet.org/belief/12-things-not-say-grieving-nonbelievers