NYTimes: What to Say (and What Not to Say) to Someone Who’s Grieving

A little empathy goes a long way, especially when someone is recovering from the loss of a loved one. Unfortunately, even when some of us mean well, we make the situation worse. Here's how to avoid it...
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/14/smarter-living/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html

Grief is a direct impact of racism: Eight ways to support yourself - The Conversation US

Racism affects us emotionally and physically. Prof. Roberta K. Timothy offers eight ways to strategically empower and care for oneself when dealing with everyday racism. ....
https://theconversation.com/grief-is-a-direct-impact-of-racism-eight-ways-to-support-yourself-91750

Grief Without Belief: How to Deal With Death as an Atheist - YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMjj9_BICoE
 

12 Things Not to Say to Grieving Nonbelievers

When you talk with people who are grieving, you want to make them feel better. At the very least, you don't want to make them feel worse. This isn't always true (as you'll find out in some of these stories). But in general, in the face of grief, the point of comfort and consolation is to relieve some small part of the grieving person's pain. And I'll assume that the last thing you want to do is add to that pain.

The bad news is that, if you're a religious believer, the chances are excellent you've done exactly that....
http://www.alternet.org/belief/12-things-not-say-grieving-nonbelievers